@@ Woman Found Out Her Tinder Match Lied To Her So She Decided To Exact Revenge

 Still thrilled about their chat last night, this woman had been going through her news feed when she saw his name. He appeared as a suggested friend on Facebook! Her heart was fluttering as she clicked on his profile. All of a sudden, she saw something that made her stop. This was the moment that it dawned on her that he had not been truthful with her.

Woman Found Out Her Tinder Match Lied To Her So She Decided To Exact Revenge

Woman Found Out Her Tinder Match Lied To Her So She Decided To Exact Revenge

Looking For The One

Kimberly Anne was a single woman living in Palm Beach County, Florida. She decided that she had to move on right away. It had been a while since her last relationship, and she felt ready to put herself out there again. But how was she going to find someone new? For one thing, she did not frequent bars. Her friends tried to set her up with men, but the dates had been disasters. She had no idea that those bad dates had nothing on what she would go through.

Looking For The One

Looking For The One

It Was Hard

She was aware that it was hard to date in the digital age. This was even truer when you are in your thirties. Her friends told her to try her luck on Tinder, the infamous dating app. She had nothing to lose and decided to sign up for it. In the past, she had heard about dating app horror stories and felt a little apprehensive about it. However, her anxiety eventually turned out to be justified!

It Was Hard

It Was Hard

Time To Take The Plunge

One evening, she decided to give it a shot at last. She installed the app and made a profile. She gave her introduction a lot of thought and even rewrote it thrice. It was important for her to perfect it. Nervously, she clicked the save button and effectively put herself on the market. The hard part was over, so she started to go through the profiles that the app presented her. What was she going to find there?

Time To Take The Plunge

Time To Take The Plunge

Not The Best Start

She swiped left a couple of times and started to lose hope. Most of the profiles she saw said that they were not looking for anything serious. Kimberly, however, was not interested in a casual relationship. This was disappointing because she was looking for the one! Things changed when she saw him.

Not The Best Start

Not The Best Start

His Name Was Alex

The name of the man was Alex. A little older than Kimberly, he lived close by. On top of that, she found him attractive! After checking out his profile, she found out that he was searching for “someone special.” Excited and nervous, she thought, “…well, here goes nothing.” After taking a deep breath, she swiped right on him. The next thing for her to do was to wait. Was he going to swipe right on her too?

His Name Was Alex

His Name Was Alex

It Was A Match!

She instantly received a notification. They matched! They started to talk right away. I asked him what he was looking for and he asked me the same question and I told him that I was hoping to find my special someone,” she recounted, “and he responded with “I love that.” Things between them were going very well. Kimberly could not believe her luck. Apparently, it felt too good to be true because it really was!

It Was A Match!

It Was A Match!

They Hit It Off

The two of them went on to talk until the wee hours of the morning. They had many common interests, and he seemed like a great guy. She admired the fact that he was straightforward about his desire for a serious relationship. Could he be the one she was looking for? Sadly, things eventually took a turn for the strange.

They Hit It Off

They Hit It Off

Something Felt Off

The morning after that, Kimberly received a message from him on WhatsApp. She found this strange. “He sent me a message on Whatsapp and I asked him why he was messaging me on there instead of just sending a regular text,” she said, “…and he just changed the subject.” When she went on Facebook, however, she found something that made her wary! What was it that she learned over there?

Something Felt Off

Something Felt Off

She Found His Facebook

She scrolled through the feed and found his name on the social media app! He was there as a person she might now. She was curious to find out more about Alex, so she naturally checked out his profile. What she found there raised red flags in no time. She was shocked by what she saw on his timeline!

She Found His Facebook

She Found His Facebook

He Lied To Me

“I thought I’d take a look and the first thing I noticed was that it said he was in a relationship,” Kimberly explained in one interview. She could not believe it. Her heart broke as she realized the truth. “Hoping it was old I clicked on her profile and the first post was an engagement announcement from exactly one month ago.” Eventually, her sadness made way to another emotion. She was furious with him!

He Lied To Me

He Lied To Me

She Was Furious

He had lied to her from the get-go. Kimberly wondered what step she should take after this. All of a sudden, her anger died out. This time, she was enveloped in a feeling of calmness. She wanted to make him pay for what he did to her. She needed to confront Alex. Exactly how was he going to say now that the cat was out of the bag?

She Was Furious

She Was Furious

Time For A Confrontation

“My first emotion was just complete shock, I could not believe it – I was just flabbergasted,” she said, “I wasn’t seriously emotionally invested yet, but I was angry on her behalf that he would do this to her.” Kimberly sent him a message: “Yo. Facebook just suggested you as my friend. You just got engaged?!” Alex replied, but she could not believe his response. It made her see red! She knew that she had to take it a step further.

Time For A Confrontation

Time For A Confrontation

He Denied It

“Wrong person honey,” he told her. Yes, he completely denied the entire thing! On top of that, he had the audacity to claim that it was not his Facebook profile. She said, “I looked again at his Facebook pictures and compared a tattoo on his arm to the pictures on his Tinder profile and it was the exact same tattoo…” She gave him the opportunity to confess, but he did not take it. Revenge was the only way to go!

He Denied It

He Denied It

How To Get Even

She clicked the post with the photos of Alex and his fiancé. After this, she clicked the profile of the poor woman. “I just felt if the tables were turned I would want her [his fiancé] to tell me. I feel women have to support women in these situations – we have to have each other’s backs,” Kimberly narrated. She then began to write a message to her!

How To Get Even

How To Get Even

She Shared The Screenshots

Kimberly sent her screenshots of their conversations. “My whole body was shaking when I was sending these messages because I didn’t know how she was going to react,” she explained, “I felt so awful and partially responsible that I could potentially be breaking this woman’s heart.” This was how she ended the message: “…do what you will with this information, I would want to know if it was me.” Let us see what the woman had to say about this betrayal!

She Shared The Screenshots

She Shared The Screenshots

The Response

“It’s ok it’s not your fault, thanks,” the woman replied. After this, Kimberly blocked Alex on Facebook and even unmatched with him on the Tinder app. “I was afraid that there would be some sort of backlash – I didn’t want to be harassed by him,” she shared. She could not believe what the fiancé told her. She just found out that Alex had been cheating on her, so why was she taking it all in stride?

The Response

The Response

She Was Not Surprised

“Her response was so calm and minimal that I don’t know if she was in shock, or maybe this was something that had happened before and she wasn’t really surprised by it,” Kimberly explained. “I’m afraid that she has decided to forgive him, but that’s her choice if that’s what she wanted to do.”

She Was Not Surprised

She Was Not Surprised

He Covered His Tracks

“Personally I would have ended the engagement immediately, but maybe she was more understanding than I would have been,” explained Kimberly. “Later in the day I looked at his profile and saw he had changed his profile picture to one of him and his fiancé together hugging. Maybe that was his way of saying that it won’t happen again through telling everyone he’s totally in love with her.”

He Covered His Tracks

He Covered His Tracks

It Went Viral

Kimberly took to Facebook to explain what happened to her. She was ‘saddened’ by all the women who responded to say that they went through something similar. Kimberly explained, “I want to believe that this is not something that is common. I’ve been single for eight months and ultimately want to find my special person – I would like my next relationship to be my last. I have to be very careful going forward about what questions I ask and really assess the way they’re answering those and continue to see if I can find anything about them online before I get too invested.”

It Went Viral

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